Joel is a free man and on the path to riding once again. Thats right 135 days later he is walking and home finally. That's not too bad considiering what he has gone through. Thanks to all of you who have been there for him. Now lets go ride homie..
Wishing
Monday, August 29, 2011
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Sunday, May 8, 2011
Save Bobby Benefit
Was a hugh success! There was an unbelieveable turn out and there was around $3500 raised for Joel! He would of been stoked to see all the people who came to show their love and support. It was truely inspiring and restores alot of faith in humanity. I just want to thank everyone who came, donated their time and money, from all the clubs who came, Road Devils, SLCHC, Unlucky Ones, Bandidos MC, Imperials, Salt City Draggers, Lost Souls, and anyone else I forgot, thank you so much. You guys all rule!
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
How many screws does it take...
to hold together a fractured pelvis? Well, for Joel it was 22 and two plates, ouch...He had the second pelvis surgery the other day. It went well but he was hurting pretty bad. At least he's still flirting with the nurses and has his sense of humor.
Cash In Hand
If you would like to make a donation in Joel's Recovery Fund it is listed at US bank as Joel Recovery Fund Account # 153152333636. It's also good Karma, so spread it around!
Update
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Free Bobby AKA Joel BBQ
| Time | Saturday, May 7 · 11:00am - 2:00pm |
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| Location | 1453 Major Street, SLC (behind Piper Down) |
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| More Info | On Saturday April 16, 2011 around 5:30pm our good friend Joel was involved in a pretty serious motorcycle accident. He's currently still listed as critical condition at IMC hospital in SLC. Joel has a long road ahead of him before he can hit the open road once again. We are having a BBQ benefit at Cadillac Chris's shop. Bring your rides and wallets and come have a drink, grub and good time. We appreciate your support! |
Friday, April 29, 2011
Flipping the BIRD
Saw Joel today after work, went by and talked with his mom and actually got to see him for a minute before they took him off for his first MRI. It's such a comfort to see him responding, eyes open, and alert. His mom told me he flipped off the doc the other day and has been making kissing faces at the nurses! Nice, looks like he has his humor back. He'll be having a second pelvis surgery tomorrow I believe. He already has two screws in his pelvic bone. I also learned today that he servered the femoral artery when he fractured his pelvis. That explains why there was so much internal bleeding and why the docs had a difficult time stopping it. He went through 33 units of blood, not 8 as we first heard that night. To put it into perspective the human body has an average of 8-10 pints of blood. One unit of blood roughly equals 450ml or 1 pint. Joel went through about 32 pints of blood or 3.9 gallons! Maybe I'm the only one who finds this remarkable, maybe since I'm a nurse, but wow!
There's a benefit planned for May 7th. I'll post more info regarding it as I receive it. Until then...God Speed JD...
There's a benefit planned for May 7th. I'll post more info regarding it as I receive it. Until then...God Speed JD...
Thursday, April 21, 2011
one turn away
So here it is, my random brief lowdown of how a nightmare can happen in a blink of an eye. Keep in mind Joel and I have been friends for just about 10 years, he was the 1st one in the "car scene" to reach out to me. I can still remember when I walked out of work towards my old 63 Galaxie and saw a note that read "sweet car, come hang with the Lost Souls" ha ha, I was so stoked I did not know anyone in town into cars like I was, It was so cool to be able to be around like minded lost souls like myself. From that point on we bonded instantly, and I met some of my now best friends and shared many good times together. So here it is a brief story how it went down from my eyes, eyes you don’t want to have I wish this experience on no one but at the same time, I would want to be the one to be there for Joel not that I did much but.... So take this for what it is maybe a cautionary story I don’t know, I am not one to preach.
FUCK!!!!!!, not sure what the fuck I am doing, my fucking mind is shot, just random thoughts trying to keep my head on str8, let me begin this last sat, made plans to roll up to my bros house/SKS compound/shop to get a little help Frisco mounting my new tank from my brothers, fucking easy thing to do we were done quickly, while our little future terrors (kids we all have them they rule) played around the house, so I get my shit wrapped up and while I was doing this my brothers are tinkering with the carb on Brandon’s triumph he just built a few weeks ago. Had to get ready to roll on out when Joel decide to take a spin on Brandon’s Triumph and asked me if I wanted to take a “ride around the block”, so I jumped on my bike looked at my helmet sitting on the ramp and said “ah its only around the block Joel didn’t have one on either” and so we rolled, and the FUCKING nightmare began. 1 block from getting back to the house rolling into a right turn ahead I had to slow down my hat was flying off and I had to grab it Joel was ahead by 3 cars length I get my hat settled looked up and OH FUCK!!!! Joel is going into the turn hot laying the bike down my fucking heart is pumping I am freaking out he is laying the bike down in a turn sliding into traffic as their light turned green, fuck WTF!! Goes into the street in a full on BMX style slide into oncoming cars fucking gets hit flies and life was surly over at that point. I fucking roll up on the side walk my fucking heart is out of my chest l kill my bike as I am grabbing my phone to call 911 and run up to my brother who is now laid out flat in middle of the street instant blood everywhere civilians everywhere and my brother is surely out before my eyes. I did what I could I stayed on the phone with 911 and held his hand I am a wreck and not prepared for this at all. Holy fuck what the fuck just happened, this is my best friend my brother a father and now what the FUCK!EMS showed up, I called the house informed family and Brandon who was there in seconds, instant nightmares began for us both. I dealt with the fucking pigs, who issued 3 tickets to my fallen brother by the way I fucking hate fucking cops so much!!! ACAB!! So fuck I can’t remember so much happening my mind is a wreck, yours would be too if you see a trauma like that not good! Of course by now we are at the hospital (and when I say we I mean about 20 plus brothers/friends/family all there for support) and I have been there all weekend long self medicating and dealing with what I just witnessed, It was so hard to see and talk to his mom thru out the night she is one tough lady I see where Joel gets his stubbornness and toughness from. So we had lots of waiting lots of unknown-ness, Doctor’s tell us its not good Joel is the sickest person in Utah right now, there is severe head trauma severe fractures and bleeding, everything bad you could imagine was happening. The end was near, yet my tough brother was hanging on not by much but he was still fighting, time goes by lots of shit is going down it’s 3 in the morning on Sunday and they had finally let me see him and it was the hardest thing I had to ever do, I talked to him not that he could respond he’s in a HEAVY drug induced coma but I talked I gave him my love and I fucking fought back my tears with every bit of strength I had left. I now decide I am a wreck I need to get some sleep I go home my family is asleep, kiss my kids while their sleeping, (mind you they were all playing at the compound with Joel and Brandon’s kids when this happened they knew what happened they could hear the sirens they saw the fear in my face when I got back to them before I went the hospital), and go grab a beer and sit on my deck smoke a bowl to calm my nerves and hope I can just pass out because I sure as hell cant sleep. Life was still at that moment, it’s so weird I could hear the birds chirping yet everything was still slow motion like, as I look at the morning moonlight I just break down, my mind is full on destroyed. Sunday morning running on minimal sleep I go back to the hospital friends are there once again, (so good to see Joel is lucky to have friends like you all) Joel is now stable, but still a wreck, there is still a certain degree of unknown, but I know he will fight this he will pull through he has too, you don’t understand he has too I wont settle for anything less. I go see him again, this time I am almost emotion less, like I feel nothing but I do, in my heart and mind I am a wreck I want to break down but I don’t, instead I talk to him, I tell that fucker because I know he can hear me, that we are there for him, that he has so many loved ones outside waiting for him to pull through just there to show support for him and his family. I tell him that he has to fight this, he has to finish his shovel, the sickest shovel in Utah hands down, (wait till you see this thing guys) I tell him we WILL be pushing his ass around Born Free I will personally push him all day long but we wont except anything less than a fight out of him to survive, I talked for a while, but there were others waiting to see him as well, so I leave, I couldn’t deal today, even though he was doing better I just had this feeling that I had to go home and spend time with my family and my kids. I play with my kids at home, but my mind is elsewhere with Joel. Still I am there my kids need to know I am ok, and things will be ok. Monday morning comes I get a mass text from Joel’s wife at 530am while I am getting ready to leave for work, he had a good night and his vitals are all good, he is going in for another CT scan and x-rays, she tells me he has a long road ahead of him, but we have him he is still here with us and that is the most important thing right now he is a fighter and he will survive this fucking nightmare of a life. Some tell me he is lucky to have a friend like me and that I was there and some are worried about how I am dealing with this, I don’t get it no one should give a fuck about me!! They shouldn’t, I will deal with my inner hell that I witnessed, it doesn’t matter, all that matters is that I get my best friend back, that he pulls through and that he one day gets to finish that shovel (which only needs like 3 hours of work left its almost done so maybe we well not me I know what your saying Brandon I will mess it up and drill crooked ha ha will finish it for him that would be cool right?) and ride again, and most important he needs to survive so I can kick his fucking ass for putting us all through this hell!!!!
Joel we love you brother, hope your ready for your sponge bath :) - Mike B....
FUCK!!!!!!, not sure what the fuck I am doing, my fucking mind is shot, just random thoughts trying to keep my head on str8, let me begin this last sat, made plans to roll up to my bros house/SKS compound/shop to get a little help Frisco mounting my new tank from my brothers, fucking easy thing to do we were done quickly, while our little future terrors (kids we all have them they rule) played around the house, so I get my shit wrapped up and while I was doing this my brothers are tinkering with the carb on Brandon’s triumph he just built a few weeks ago. Had to get ready to roll on out when Joel decide to take a spin on Brandon’s Triumph and asked me if I wanted to take a “ride around the block”, so I jumped on my bike looked at my helmet sitting on the ramp and said “ah its only around the block Joel didn’t have one on either” and so we rolled, and the FUCKING nightmare began. 1 block from getting back to the house rolling into a right turn ahead I had to slow down my hat was flying off and I had to grab it Joel was ahead by 3 cars length I get my hat settled looked up and OH FUCK!!!! Joel is going into the turn hot laying the bike down my fucking heart is pumping I am freaking out he is laying the bike down in a turn sliding into traffic as their light turned green, fuck WTF!! Goes into the street in a full on BMX style slide into oncoming cars fucking gets hit flies and life was surly over at that point. I fucking roll up on the side walk my fucking heart is out of my chest l kill my bike as I am grabbing my phone to call 911 and run up to my brother who is now laid out flat in middle of the street instant blood everywhere civilians everywhere and my brother is surely out before my eyes. I did what I could I stayed on the phone with 911 and held his hand I am a wreck and not prepared for this at all. Holy fuck what the fuck just happened, this is my best friend my brother a father and now what the FUCK!
Joel we love you brother, hope your ready for your sponge bath :) - Mike B....
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Update
Joel has been having a problem calming down after being stimulated, his cranial pressure and blood pressure take a long time to decrease so the Physician said the room is to remain stress free, dark and Joel is to be left alone for a while. The main issues are now are his brain still being very inflamed and fragile. He has been raised to a 10 on a level 1 being brain dead and 14 being completely normal. His lungs are still being suctioned for blood but are healing remarkably well. His pelvis fractures cannot be fixed until his inner cranial pressure is reduced to prevent long term effects during surgery due to being laid flat (boy oh boy that kid gets pissed when you lay him down...I swear he was giving me the look of "WHY THE HELL ARE YOU LETTING THEM DO THIS TO ME???"). They did reduce his O2 levels by 10% overnight but the Physician decided to change the Ventilator to be qued by Joel to breathe rather than it breathe for him. I was there from 2am until about 11:30am, got home to take a nap, a shower and to drive my kids a little crazy until I get back up there. His responses are good, gave the Physician a good ol' fonze thumb (this is where you insert the ayyyyyyyy....). The Doctor has had his Mom and I change the visiting schedule to family and whoever we decide to allow only. The first two days were unknown if he was going to survive but now that we know he is the Doctor said Joel needs time in a quiet room with little stimulation other than from the nurses and interdisciplinary teams. Please please please do not take any of this as us saying we do not want your support, Joel is a lucky man to have all of you in his life... He just needs time to heal and I just want to be sure you know we are not trying to keep anyone shut out of his recovery. There are a lot of benefit ideas and beginnings of plans being made, please if your trying to help in the fundraising for Joel keep in contact with Jennifer Ruiz (Collard Greens) and Mikey the Sparkler Johnson =) I have asked they both control the entire fundraising project. They have already started planning and have things set up, we are just trying to keep it all together so it is less confusing and not duplicating efforts! Jen has KBer involved so hopefully it will be great for Joel. Really really, thank you guys for everything... - via Denise
Free Joel
OK, a little more info about this blog. Blog, I can't believe I'm even blogging, but it's for a damn good cause. "Free Joel", why? Well, because for the past several months this guy has been busting ass finishing his Shovel just to ride down with all his friends for the Born Free show end of June. That's why, plain and simple, got it? Good. Since there's no way he'll make it this year, why not bring Born Free to him, so that's what we're doing. Enough of this already...damn I'm getting sensitive in my old age.
With Love - The "Sensitive Ones" (thanks Tally)
With Love - The "Sensitive Ones" (thanks Tally)
Updates
Here's the low down. These are the updates I've received since April 18. I'll be adding more as I receive them.
April 18: Joel had a pretty good night, vital signs were great. Sure does not like to be moved! Last night he was irritaed by being moved and was moving around. I had him find my, (Denise's), face by my voice and asked him to take my hand. As soon as he locked onto my face his hand came up for mine. He is headed down to CT to get his brain pressure evaluated and to look more at his face. Lots of reconstructive and plastic surgeries are going to be needed but it's a hell of a lot better than him not around at all! Will update as I know more, he is lucky to have such good friends and family - via Denise.
April 20: Joel is calming down alot faster from being stimulated. He was put back on the ventilator last night at 99% just so they don't overwork him too much. This morning he has been on 60% but he is triggering his own breathing. We were told that between day 5 and 7 the brain swelling can get worse. It's considered more of a critical time now than when he first had the brain injury. They are now trying to control his temp because he had been running kind of a high fever. The doctor told me that he is progressing well but there might be some regression which is usually the case when it comes to these kin of injurys. He was taken down to get anther brain CT. Just before he left he had his eyes open longer than usual so I played the recordings of his boys for him. What a reaction! I think he needed to hear his kids, he started reaching up and looking around and even picked himself up like he wanted to get up. He has a couple procedures planned, (a new central line and some testing to be sure the fever is not triggered from an infection). It looks like his pelvis surgery is probably going to be Saturday, they originally thought tomorrow but it's too soon - via Denise.
April 18: Joel had a pretty good night, vital signs were great. Sure does not like to be moved! Last night he was irritaed by being moved and was moving around. I had him find my, (Denise's), face by my voice and asked him to take my hand. As soon as he locked onto my face his hand came up for mine. He is headed down to CT to get his brain pressure evaluated and to look more at his face. Lots of reconstructive and plastic surgeries are going to be needed but it's a hell of a lot better than him not around at all! Will update as I know more, he is lucky to have such good friends and family - via Denise.
April 20: Joel is calming down alot faster from being stimulated. He was put back on the ventilator last night at 99% just so they don't overwork him too much. This morning he has been on 60% but he is triggering his own breathing. We were told that between day 5 and 7 the brain swelling can get worse. It's considered more of a critical time now than when he first had the brain injury. They are now trying to control his temp because he had been running kind of a high fever. The doctor told me that he is progressing well but there might be some regression which is usually the case when it comes to these kin of injurys. He was taken down to get anther brain CT. Just before he left he had his eyes open longer than usual so I played the recordings of his boys for him. What a reaction! I think he needed to hear his kids, he started reaching up and looking around and even picked himself up like he wanted to get up. He has a couple procedures planned, (a new central line and some testing to be sure the fever is not triggered from an infection). It looks like his pelvis surgery is probably going to be Saturday, they originally thought tomorrow but it's too soon - via Denise.
Joel
On Saturday April 16 2011 around 5:30pm our good friend Joel was involved in a pretty serious motorcycle accident. He's currently still listed as critical condition at IMC hospital in SLC.
I decided to start this as a way for family and friends to keep updated and to show their support. I welcome all comments and contributions. A benefit for Joel is in the works tentatively scheduled for May 7. Again, all help and contributions are welcomed.
I decided to start this as a way for family and friends to keep updated and to show their support. I welcome all comments and contributions. A benefit for Joel is in the works tentatively scheduled for May 7. Again, all help and contributions are welcomed.
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